INTERSECTIONS
If There hasn’t been, there will
be an intersection in the trail for each of us.
How much decision-making or thought is placed into the direction we will
travel can say a lot about not only our running interest but also our life.
There are times when things are
going so well that we just burst through without even noticing the optional
paths. Straight-ahead with focused
narrowed mind and thoughts only on that day's run. Everyone needs and deserves a little selfish
indulgence now and again. The key here
is recognition. Recognize whether you
are blindly hurling yourself along the path and losing out to all the wonderful
options encircling your life. Realize if
your pace is just too fast for the important people in your life to match. Be willing to adjust the speed you ride
through these intersections at, if you need to.
Other times we are forced to
suddenly stop, overwhelmed at the choices we have to consider.
Is it a right? After all, this is the upstanding thing and
all, going the direction you know is the accepted one. Choosing the safe secure conservative route
won't always impress those around you, but it may be enough to hold the other
parts of your life together. It is wise
to take inventory of what's really meaningful to us while at our moment of
choice.
What about left? A side trip to the outer limits is always
interesting, but what might you have to give up for those minutes of
enjoyment? Most of us are mature enough
to realize that there is a cost associated with the venture down that
unexplored path. Some will have to be
brave enough to take the chance; others only have to be foolish. The trick is to know which it is, each time.
Turn back, around, reverse your
steps? Returning to the safety of the
past… not a very romantic option, no
adventure in that is there? Or, is
there?
How many times have each of us
said, at some point in time,
"If only I had… "
Or,
"I wish I could just go back
and… "
While not always the first option
when presented with an intersection, it at times is a worthy one.
Sometimes the path we take isn't
immediately evident. That crossroads or
intersection has four distinct directions, but what about striking out off of
the path?
While not the safety net of a
defined route, it may have the most sights to behold. It will be the roughest ride for sure, but
perhaps the most interesting also. Only
the very independent have the option of a journey through the wild. The rest of us can only dream and wonder.
When at the point of a complete
halt, and making a decision is too difficult, beware of digging yourself into a
hole. Avoid the ruts. Avoid the descent to no return. Instead, look around for some help. The friendships you make along the toughest
stretches of trail will often be your most enduring.
For some of us there may even be
additional choices, that’s the wonder of being individuals. There will be some easier choices than
others, but I bet to each of us these simple directions on life's path end up
shaping our lives. Remember that next
time one comes along.
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